Its painful when one’s divorced with whom one thought and hoped one will spend the rest of one’s life with, especially when one ponders on the marital vows exchanged during one’s matrimony but like some will say, “Life goes on!”.
But because yours didn’t work doesn’t mean others won’t work. Don’t say these to your female pal when she is about to get married.
1. Do You Thinks He’s Different? All Men Are The Same: Really? How do you mean? Hello dearie! ‘Cos your man wasn’t man enough and was rather irresponsible doesn’t mean hers will be the same. Men aint the same.
2. “Are you going for a smaller wedding than mine?”: You feed her with how elaborate yours was, all the foods and drinks in plenty, the famous and wealthy that grazed your ceremony …and in the end it collapsed. Spare her such details please, it’s not really your business the size of the wedding she chooses, yours is to play your committed role as her friend.
3. “Are You Sure You Want To Do This?”: Of course she decided to, that’s why she accepted his love proposal, don’t draw her back and don’t discourage her now. She needs your full support.
4. “Will you invite your ex to the wedding?”: Why on earth should you ask her that, yes she is your friend but there are still some things very personal to her and things dear to heart, only her can decide. Besides, it just a few days to her wedding, talk about something better like picking her wedding gown, buying her shoes and helping her to choose a very nice hair style, etc.
5. “How Do You View Your Would-Be-In-Laws?”: Asking her that now is way too late, what happened to asking her this some months back. She has to learn to cope even if they’re bad-mannered. There’s nothing new under the sun!
Marriage and Learning are inseparable, you have to learn to trust and accommodate your spouse no matter what. Haven’t you seen or heard of couples still together in their 80’s and till death do them apart? See yourself succeeding in this school of learning called Marriage. For the divorcees, learn from your previous mistakes and imbibe love again but please look before you leap this time. Above all, seek God.
HML in advance girlfriend!
