My Style, My Problem

Have you ever wanted to add a twist to your style? Or maybe you’ve craved a simpler touch, or perhaps you’ve dreamed of creating something unique—something that screams you?

Creating your style can feel like a huge challenge in a world where fashion trends change faster than the seasons. Society doesn’t make it easier, either, with its unspoken rules about what to wear and where to wear it. But what if the problem isn’t the ever-changing trends? What if the real challenge is embracing your individuality and making your style truly your own? 

Welcome to My Style, My Problem—a journey through the highs, lows, and endless possibilities of personal fashion. Here, we’ll explore how to break free from societal norms, celebrate your uniqueness, and create a wardrobe that tells your story. Because, let’s face it, your style shouldn’t be dictated by trends or geography—it should be a reflection of you. 

When it comes to fashion, I’ve always believed that style is more than just clothing—it’s a statement, a reflection of who you are, and a lens through which people can see your identity. As a young Nigerian woman with a desire for quality, my style happens to be my problem, but it’s a problem I wear with pride.

Join me on a journey through my world of fashion trends, quality, and of course, money—where every outfit tells a story, good or bad, and every accessory is a piece of art.

Money

I’ll start by addressing the elephant in the room first: Money. Yes, I spend it—on fashion. But before you roll your eyes, let me explain. For me, money isn’t about flaunting wealth; it’s about investing in pieces that stand the test of time.

I don’t believe in fast fashion. Why would I spend my hard-earned money on something that falls apart after two washes? No, thank you. I’d rather save up for a quality coat or a pair of handcrafted loafers that will last me a lifetime. 

Growing up, my dad always said, “If you don’t buy quality, you’ll buy it twice—and eventually spend more.” That sentence has stuck with me. When you invest in high-quality pieces, you’re not just buying clothes but curating a wardrobe that tells your story.

Whether it’s a bespoke Ankara dress from a local designer or a tailored blazer from a bigger brand, every piece in my closet is a part of my unique style and commitment to quality. 

 
My Nigerian Touch

As a Nigerian woman, I take immense pride in adding my heritage to my style. There’s something magical about the vibrant colours, intricate patterns, and rich textures of African fabrics. Ankara, Lace, and Aso-oke aren’t just materials to me—they’re a connection to my roots, a way to honour my culture while staying on-trend. 

I love mixing traditional African prints with modern silhouettes. For example, I could pair an Ankara skirt with a crisp white blouse and a pair of sleek stilettos. Or a Kente-printed blazer thrown over a simple slip dress for a touch of elegance.

These combinations aren’t just stylish; they’re a celebration of my identity. And let’s not forget accessories! A statement beaded necklace or a pair of Maasai-inspired earrings can elevate any outfit, adding a touch of authenticity that money can’t buy.

Keeping Up With Trends, And Balancing It

Now, let’s talk about trends. As someone who is interested in fashion, I can’t help but keep an eye on what’s hot and what’s not. But here’s the thing: I don’t follow trends blindly. Instead, I adapt them to suit my personal style.

For example, when oversized blazers were all the rage, I opted for one in a rich, earthy tone that complemented my skin tone perfectly. And when neon colours took over, I added them subtly through accessories rather than going all out.

The key is balance. I don’t let trends dictate my style; I let them inspire me. After all, fashion is about self-expression, not conformity. Whether it’s a bold print, a daring cut, or a unique texture, I always put my own spin on it. That’s what makes my style uniquely mine—and that’s where the “problem” comes in. 

 
My Style, My Problem

Here’s the thing about having a keen eye for fashion: it’s both a blessing and a curse. On the one hand, I love the thrill of finding the perfect piece, making sure the outfit comes out as planned or better, the satisfaction of putting together a killer outfit, and the confidence that comes with knowing I look good.

On the other hand, it can be exhausting. Keeping up with the latest trends, hunting down high-quality pieces, and maintaining a wardrobe that reflects my personality is no small feat.

But you know what? I wouldn’t have it any other way. My style is my problem, but it’s a problem I embrace wholeheartedly. It’s a reflection of my values, my heritage, and my love for all things beautiful. But at the end of the day, isn’t that what fashion is all about?

My Final Thoughts…

As I continue my fashion journey, I’m reminded of the power of clothing to tell a story. Every outfit I wear is a chapter in my life, a celebration of my heritage, and a nod to the trends that inspire me. Money, quality, and fashion trends may be the pillars of my style, but at the heart of it all is a deep love for self-expression.

So, the next time you think of your style as a problem, remember to wear it with pride. And if that’s not a fashion statement, I don’t know what is.

What About You? How do you define your style? Do you struggle with balancing trends and individuality? Or have you found a way to make fashion work for you? Let’s celebrate the beauty of fashion together—because at the end of the day, style is more than just clothing; it’s a way of life.